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Saturday, February 24, 2007

this funny thing called love.

sometimes we hold on too tight
'cause we are afraid to lose something
- but because we do
- we lose it.

sometimes we hang on too loose
'cause we are afraid to fall too deep
and hence getting hurt
- but because we do
- we lose it.

sometimes we just want to let go
to protect, to preempt
- but because we do
- we lose it.


Meng told me it is easy to fall in love, but difficult to maintain love. I think love is about striking a balance - a hypersensitive scale that tips whenever one party falls into negligence.

In my opinion,
the 1st case is silly,
the 2nd is sad and
the 3rd foolish.

Which one are you?

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